Meadow is the only daughter of my youngest brother. He and his beautiful wife
Trina also have two handsome precious boys. Meadow had a very short life
here with us, but we all know that one day we will get to be with her for all
time.
My brother experienced losing his wife and baby daughter in the span of a few
weeks. I hurt for him when I saw him go through the pain and agony that he did,
but I had no clue how bad he really was hurting until my daughter joined my
niece in Heaven.
My
beautiful sister-in-law, Trina discovered shortly after giving birth to her
second son at the young age of 29 that she had Inflammatory Breast Cancer.
She
was given chemo treatments to reduce the size of the tumor which was
successful and then she had a mastectomy. After that she and her doctors
decided to try a treatment that had been successful with Leukemia patients,
but was still a fairly new treatment for breast cancer patients.
Trina
was admitted to the hospital and they removed some of her own bone marrow
from her pelvic bones and stored it. Then she was given really intensive
chemo treatments before her bone marrow was restored.She
spent three weeks in isolation, but recovered and was cancer free. The
procedure was successful.
After
approximately two years Trina was still doing very well and was still
cancer free. She had always dreamed of having a little girl and a
sister for her sons so she and my brother made the decision to have a
baby.They
were successful and soon were to find out they were expecting a baby. The
first part of the pregnancy was uneventful, but as it progressed the
cancer returned.
Trina
being the wonderful, loving mother that she was refused to let them treat
her for fear it would harm her baby. She spent the larger part of her
pregnancy in bed and as time passed she became more ill, but still refused
all treatment thinking of the baby. She prayed, read her Bible and trusted
God to take care of them both.
In
the sixth month of Trina's pregnancy the doctor decided to take Meadow by
C-section in hopes that they both would survive. This procedure was not
successful.
This
is where my sweet brother laid his beautiful wife and
precious baby to rest until they meet again.